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In LIFE BEYOND BETRAYAL, you’ll find a self-paced multi-course program and a safe confidential community of women who have experienced betrayal, infidelity, or a spouse’s addiction in their former or current primary relationship. The focus of this membership is to provide each woman with the empathy, validation, and practical skills needed to work through the devastating emotions of betrayal trauma as well as create a clear vision for the future.
This journey is about choosing a path forward in spite of what has happened to you. We want to help you step into who God created you to be! There are 3 courses for you to work through including Surviving Trauma Beyond Betrayal, Grieving Beyond Betrayal, and Reclaiming You Beyond Betrayal.
✓ To identify Safe and Unsafe People
✓ How to set clear and loving boundaries
✓ What the emotional roller coaster looks like after betrayal
✓ Why individual recovery work is the only way to a healthy coupleship
✓ Why couples counseling doesn't work in a destructive & addictive marriage
✓ How to identify triggers and put a plan to handle them
✓ How and when to speak up for yourself
✓ How to have your own goals and find your purpose
✓ Why it is important to grieve the losses associated with the betrayal
✓ How to discern what you need to work on personally
✓ The truth about trying to 'control' or 'fix' him
✓ Who to share your story with and who may cause you more harm if you do
✓ How to make healthy decisions for yourself and rewrite the rest of the story
The thing that has been so meaningful and vital for me is the gift of community. I remember the first time I met a wife who had walked through similar things…I almost cried knowing that I wasn’t the only one. Not only was I not alone in my feelings, but to know her story and know that there is life on the other side of betrayal. There was nothing I could say or feel that will be looked down on, and would be loved and supported and allowed to process and feel whatever I need to without fear of judgement. This was such a gift to me.
Heather
I found Melody when everything blew up after my husband’s sexual indiscretion. There was a lot of shame around this for me and I needed help immediately. I was all alone and it was life giving that I was finally able to find and talk to another woman who had been in my shoes that could validate what I was feeling and tell me that I wasn't crazy. I don't know where I would be today if it wasn't for Life Beyond Betrayal. I am continuing to heal and see how God is redeeming my pain and bringing beauty out from the ashes.
Requel
After 16 years of affairs and betrayal, I believed that things could never change. Walking with Melody through her courses and confidential community helped me find a freedom and wholeness that is not contingent on my husband's choices. The progressive nature of her program offers extremely practical and simple steps I could apply in my darkest days, gently lead me through the process of healing from the trauma and then invited me into a deeper dive through the grief, loss and ultimately the release. No stone is left unturned through this process! The empathetic way that Melody uses her own experience to validate my pain, yet encourages me to step into hard places has been the catalyst to helping me truly find new life beyond betrayal!
Audrey
I had spent years trying to pray through healing and look for answers all by myself. I had also spent years trying to stand in the gap for my broken marriage. The relief for me came with accepting that I couldn’t control my spouse or our circumstances. I came to the realization through this membership program that I could only control and choose my own behavior and my overall health and well-being. Being in a group that allows me to travel this journey and “feel” without having to justify myself. I am so grateful to have safety with this community of ladies and that I am loved and tended to by God through these women. Just like anyone who is dealing with a tragedy, addiction or any terrible life experience... don't do it alone!
Ann
When I found out about my husbands pornography addiction, I was utterly and completely undone. My husband got help right away. Meanwhile, I was left stranded and in a mess. That is until I came across Melody’s course and coaching. I decided to contact her and before I knew it I was in a coaching group. It was exactly what I needed and was the lifeline I was searching for. Five months later, I have grown beyond what I thought was possible. Before I felt hopeless, now I feel as if the breath of God has been restored to my soul.
Christina
“I am so glad I found the Life Beyond Betrayal program. The curriculum on surviving trauma met me right where I was and walked me through the steps towards finding my footing again. So validating! I was grateful to listen to Melody‘s reassuring message each day and I loved her song recommendations as well. Melody has poured so much love and care into this program which comes directly out of her own life experiences. She has been there herself and knows how to walk with hurting women!”
Anita